15 Marriage Problems Authors Should Write About That Aren’t Adultery
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I read a lot of literary fiction, which I really enjoy. As much I like these books, I often have to ask myself: what gives with all the adultery? It’s like any time there’s any kind of marriage whatsoever, it’s a given that it will be a lightning rod for adultery.
It’s gotten to the point where as soon as a married couple is introduced in a book, I immediately start examining their interactions with every other character they come across, wondering who they’re going to eventually wind up cheating with.
I get the age-worn fiction maxim that “only trouble is interesting” but seriously, can we be a little more creative with said trouble? I also get that adultery as a theme is as old as fiction itself. Classics like Anna Karenina, The Great Gatsby, Ethan Frome, and Madame Bovary as well as modern classics like Gone Girl and Little Children all contain it as a major element.
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But at this point, cheating is starting to feel like a cliché. There are many other real-life struggles that married people go through that don’t lead to either partner sleeping with another person. Like all conflict, they might not be earth-shattering, but they are irritating and just as deserving of being written about.
In case you’re working on a novel involving marriage and are contemplating throwing in some adultery just to make it interesting, here are some other ideas you might consider instead.
Acceptable Marriage Conflicts That Aren’t Adultery
- Whose job is it to put the toothpaste cap back on?
- Does the toilet paper go on the roll so that it can be pulled from the back or the front?
- Which direction plates should face in the dishwasher.
